WE DARE YOU
Dare to be real, raw, and vulnerable with someone today. Just one authentic interaction. Standing in your own power. Unflinching, but soft in the way a heart is soft when it allows another person inside it.
Do not fear getting bruised by being vulnerable. Rather allow your vulnerability to unfold into a conversation with another being.
I care that you ate breakfast this morning … But what did you eat? It is the details of your breakfast that tells me something about you. If you are ashamed of your breakfast, then how can we have a real conversation?
Once you’ve really said something true …. step back, pause, and allow the receiver a moment to respond. In that moment, they may come to understand that being raw and real is not their undoing, but a beginning. The beginning of a conversation their soul has been longing to have …. They may think, “Oh thank goodness! Someone cares that I was too busy rushing around the house this morning, that I only inhaled the crust of my toast, and washed it down with coffee that scalded my throat.”
We long to be seen and heard. When this happens for us, we see that it is okay to stand closer to the light. The light soothes us, and wants to see us better.
Being unwavering in who we are, and standing by what we think, say, do, and feel …. This is the way to really live. Otherwise, you are living in the shadows, and only a shell of a life.
We live in a world that seems so insincere and inauthentic much of the time. Sometimes we get lost in this. In pleasant exchanges and mindless small talk. We talk to fill up silence that makes us uncomfortable, but we are not having conversations.
Change that. Be what is real. Start a revolution of thought, where emotions are respected and people are valued. Where people smile at each other, and really mean it. Where we love each other, because we are Of each other.
Let the revolution begin. (I will toast to that!)
Fox and Owl
Artwork found: http://dancinglightstudio.com/buy_it_still.html
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LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX
Let’s have a real conversation about sex. Sex is a merging of energies between two consenting adults. When I willingly make a sacral connection with another human being, then I am exchanging energy with them.
This is far more complicated than a physical activity that brings us pleasure. We have emotional, mental, and energetic/spiritual bodies too. The science of sex mostly looks at the physical body, and occasionally takes a glimpse of the emotional body. However, the energetic body is as much a part of you as your physical body.
Have you noticed how similar a couple becomes that often engages in sexual activity? Almost as if they are blended together? Sometimes they even take on each others personality traits? This is serious business, this merging of energies.
Have you had a close friend or family member that suddenly changed … dramatically … after coupling with someone? Have you thought, “Who is this person?”
Can you remember a time when you were coupled with someone, and you felt out of sorts … Not yourself at all?
For a moment, let’s forget the emotional ramifications of choosing to merge with a partner we just met. Let’s consider what it would be like to mix energies with them.
I do not think that one intimate encounter creates a significant change. What does change is very temporary. Repeated encounters do change us though. At least as long as we are engaging in sexual activity with someone.
When we cheat on a partner, I feel that this is often their tip off. It is not as obvious as some unknown person’s hairpin on the floorboard. Rather it is that we feel energy, and know what our partner’s energy feels like.
If you know someone well, and are very energy sensitive, you will notice really quickly what someone was up to the night before. Their energy is different.
Why does this matter? It matters because we are told that a liberated woman (men have been told this for centuries) is one that chooses to have casual sexual encounters. At least, that seems to be a key indicator by popular media.
While a person certainly has (and should have) the freedom and right to choose when they have sex, where they have sex, how often they have sex, and with whom ….. I will argue that anyone that has multiple partners, very often, is not free. They are a chemistry experiment. They have merged with many. They are temporarily not themselves.
Meaning they are losing sight of themselves in the clutter of these other energies. How can one know their own mind?
This is not a “hell fire and brimstone speech.”
A true sacral connection with a respected partner will make each individual stronger. The couple will be stronger. This is an amazing gift. A beautiful and sacred gift. One that is very important. As with all gifts, it is important to respect it.
This is a very important conversation for our times.
Please know, this is not a judgement. What people do in their bedrooms between consenting adults is their business. However, this is food for thought for the energetically educated.
Fox and Owl
artwork from artselemental.com
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INTUITIVE PERSONAL ORACLE CARDS
Taking orders now for your very own “Intuitive Personal Oracle Card.” Your likeness is drawn into a scene.
Here is a lovely soul’s brand new card. (Her card is framed like a card with her name placed on it.
One receiver said this about her card, ” This is not just a card but a story. It feels so real and so familiar. I know this story. My soul knows this story well. I am so amazed at how you capture it and draw it to where I can see what’s happening. That allows my lessons to flow through in a way that is smooth and understandable. You are so incredibly talented my friend! xo – Caroline”
What will your card’s story reveal about you?
Your card and report will be emailed to you. You will later receive the drawing printed on a 5 x 7 photograph paper and mailed to you. This size was decided upon, as it is easy to frame, and would be easier to see the different symbols within it. Great for bedside night stands, healing spaces, and desktops at work. If you would rather not have it printed on photograph paper, but want the original instead ~ Please let me know when you order.
For more information, please follow this link.
Photo: Taking orders now for your very own “Intuitive Personal Oracle Card.” Your likeness is drawn into a scene.
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When we consciously choose to seek intimacy with someone that is not our partner, you can be sure your partner knows. It is not a secret. Unless they are burying their heads in the sand and denying the truth, this is not something that can be covered for long.
Our energy does not lie. When we tell a lie, our energy tells on us.
Also, when we are emotionally connected to another person, our partner knows this too. An emotional intimacy with someone that is not your partner can be just as damaging as a physical affair. When we engage in letter writing, social media flirting, business trip drinks, and eye caresses across a crowded room … We are stepping into another energy zone. One of emotional connectivity.
All of this is perfectly fine … in fact, emotional connectivity is a sacred gift. However, if we are lying to someone, then that will be uncovered … Hurt will happen … Hurt to self and to others. It is inevitable.
I am not saying that flirting with the neighbor is being emotionally abusive. There are many reasons why people choose affairs, and there are two or three or five sides to every story.
However, I am saying that emotions are almost as ignored in our physical reality as energy.
Just as emotional abuse can be just as devastating to someone as physical abuse (apples to oranges, I know… But you see where I am going with this) So too can giving your heart to someone (that is not your partner) even if you are not sharing your physical body.
Have you ever noticed that many who cheat on a partner are not interested in sharing intimate space with them? It may partially be a way to hide the affair from their spouse (marks on body, energetic changes) or because their heart belongs to someone other than their partner. Their energy has also shifted and merged with another, making them a little different. Whatever the reason, energy plays a role.
Societal norms do not very well support the idea of emotional abuse.
Writing a love letter to someone via email for example is seen as far less a big deal than kissing someone in an elevator. Or is it?! You are emotionally sending and investing energy when you write your intentions in a letter. You are emotionally giving and focusing energy when you kiss.
When you tell someone over and over, “You are a good for nothing screw up that will never amount to anything.” Is it worse than slapping someone’s face? We can argue that a physical hit could do structural damage. However we can also argue that words laced with energy can do internal structural damage to our psyche. Both are betrayal of trust.
Physical abuse is unacceptable and dangerous.
Emotional abuse is unacceptable and dangerous too, just in a different way.
Energy can be used in many different ways, and to many different ends.
We are all in this and learning together. When we place the same level of importance on energy as we do our physical bodies …. then change will come.
Fox and Owl
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ENERGETIC UNDERSTANDING CLASS
Join Intuitive Counselor Melissa Rae Thompson as she explores the energetic patterning in our DNA, both currently and through our ancestral lineage.
Our family story holds an incredible amount of healing potential. Just realizing how much our families impact us is important. Energetic Understanding: Family Stories and Generational Healing course is designed to take an initial step towards deep healing of self and our family line.
From a place of science and spirituality we can work towards universal healing. I believe this begins with Self. However, “no person is an island.” We each come with a story, and a family. Stories often repeat generationally in families. If we can change the story, then it is possible that we can change our genes. Maybe more importantly, we can change the story of future generations.
For example, there is evidence that fear can be passed down genetically through families. What happens if this fear is healed within a family member? What happens when one person in a family line decides to change their story? Could this have true potential to alter the story, and thus the genetic coding in future generations? I believe, YES.
To better understand how our family stories impact our genes, it is important to absorb the supporting science. I want to stress that I am not a physician, and do not own a ph.d. Instead I am an emotional healer, intuitive artist, and story collector. This in no way makes me an expert. However it does make me someone willing to ask questions that have the potential to change the course of our history.
In this course we will first delve into science, and then really focus on our family story. Each one of us has a story. We are members of a group that directly impacts our genes. Fears, gifts, joys, sorrows, and traumas can all be found within our genetic coding. Our bloodline tells our tale.
Join Melissa Rae for an in depth look into your family story.
In this course, you will be invited to participate in:
• an online co-learning group
• materials that support learning, healing, and growth
• an intuitive mini drawing and reading
• an one on one phone call with Melissa Rae
Melissa Rae has an Associates degree in Massage Therapy (focused on medical massage) a BS in Psychology (with a focus on research) and an MS in Counseling Psychology. She also is a Reiki Master, and intuitive artist.
Mondays February 24 – March 31, 12-1pm (view in your time zone)
ATTEND THIS EVENT: $75.00
To order, please follow this link: http://sacredcircleretreats.com/energetic-understanding-family-stories-and-generational-healing/